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Saturday, December 29, 2007 I Want To See GodOne day a religious man set out to a nearby town. He did not anticipate the heavy downpour as he made his way through the forest. He accidentally stepped onto a trap laid for elephants and fell into the deep pit.Torrents of rain continued to pour and the water in the pit rose to the man's knees. In the silence of the forest, he prayed to God to save him. A painter arrived at the scene with a long ladder under his arm. He heard the prayer of the man and offered to help the man up with his ladder. But the religious man declined his offer much to his surprise. "I want to see God. Only he should rescue me," he said. The painter tried to convince him but to no avail. He left the scene, leaving the man to continue with his prayer. The man prayed to God to appear in his magnificent form and rescue him out of his plight. By now, the water level had risen to his waist. The huge pit was noticed by a locksmith who passed by carrying strong, metal chains in his hand. He, too offered to help the man up. "I want to see God. Only he should rescue me," he maintained obstinately. The locksmith also left the scene, failing to persuade the man. Now, the water in the pit has risen above the man's chin and he struggled to keep afloat. However, he persisted on his unwavering faith and continued to pray to God to rescue him. Just then, a farmer stopped by at the pit with a thick rope hoisted on his shoulders. Like the other men, he too offered to help him but the religious man refused him too, citing the same reason. The farmer understood the potential danger and tried persuading the man but he remained adamant. As the others, he too, left the scene resignedly. Eventually, the water filled to the brim and the religious man drowned. His soul drifted up to Heaven where he met God. "You have forsaken me," he began, feeling betrayed. "I had prayed to see you and you did not come to my rescue." A smile spread across God's serene face, "I did hear your prayer. I had sent three men to rescue you but you had refused their help. And yet, you had insisted upon seeing me and here you have got your wish," replied God in his detached, yet loving voice. The religious man bowed his head when he realised how foolish he had been. To think about : The religious man represents our ego and denial. The three men represent God's voice within us; each time we ignore one, he patiently conveys it again. How often have we denied our inner voice or instincts? Moral of the story: Don't play games with God. He is a better sportsman! Labels: Reflection Thachayini Coffee Talk at 12:42 PM
Wednesday, December 26, 2007 HappinessFor all those who have been dragging your feet to work after a long weekend, here's a story to enjoy with a cup of coffee to perk you up.A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed each morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably coifed and shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a nursing home today. His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready. As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been hung on his window. "I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having just been presented with a new puppy. "Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait." "That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied. "Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged . It's how I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it. It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed and be thankful for the ones that do. Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open, I'll focus on the new day and all the happy memories I've stored away. Just for this time in my life. Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in. So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy: 1. Free your heart from hatred. 2. Free your mind from worries. 3. Live simply. 4. Give more. 5. Expect less. Labels: Inspiration Thachayini Coffee Talk at 4:33 PM
Sunday, December 23, 2007 Heli, The Star of BethlehemThis is the story of the Christmas star that announced the birth of Jesus and directed the three wise men to see Jesus.God decided to have lights in heaven and created the sun, moon and all the stars on the third day of creation. He loved each star very much and would invite them to his presence and listen to them. Once, he sent a proclamation for all the stars to appear before him and he would select one for an important purpose. With eagerness, all the stars gathered at his throne room. Amanda, the smallest star of them all was mocked by its fellow stars who believed that she did not stand a chance. God announced that he is sending his son into the world and would be selecting the star to announce his arrival. The greatest among them will proclaim his birth to the world. The stars were thrilled and dreamt of the great honour they would receive if they were selected. The first star stepped forward. Tariq : I give light and heat to 15 planets and 27 moons. I am one of the largest stars in the galaxy. I would be very proud to announce your son's birth. God : Very impressive indeed! Polaris : Humans know me as the North Star. I have guided many sailors to their destination and have been a constant beacon of light for all travelers. Who would be better to mark the birth of your son? God : Well done. Sirius : I am one of the brightest stars. My lights is seen all over this great galaxy. I can think of nothing more wonderful than to share my light with the earth. God : Good job. Every other star took turns to step forward and spoke to their greatness and accomplishments. The last star to step out was Amanda. Amanda : No planets or moons revolve around me and I guide no sailors home. My much larger and brighter brothers hide my light. But I joyfully do your will to the best of my ability. I am what you say I am. I will be what you say I will be. Silence befell the throne room. Astra, the wisest star stepped forward and withdrew. Followed by the other stars who also withdrew until only Amanda remained. Amanda : Lord, I don't understand. Why did they all leave?" God : They all came forward to announce their own power and ability. You were the only one that proclaimed faith in my ability. You truly are the greatest star. Amanda thanked the Lord and he named her Heli, henceforth. She was assigned with the honourable task of proclaiming God's glory in the night sky for all to see. Heli took her place in the night sky above Bethlehem. For many months, she was the brightest and most beautiful star the world had ever seen. When her mission was complete, God gave her a very special place of honour in the night sky. On a clear night you can still see her. She is not the biggest or the brightest, but she is still there, faithfully obeying God. She is truly the greatest star. To give real service you must add something which cannot be bought or measured with money, and that is sincerity and integrity. Labels: Motivation Thachayini Coffee Talk at 8:49 PM
Thursday, December 20, 2007 You Are Born With A PurposeOnce I had an opportunity to work in a non-profitable organization for a short period of time. As a temporary staff, I was delegated a task by my Senior Manager to issue leaflets to the members for an upcoming seminar. Single-handedly (and with the occasional help that my other colleagues from the other department sneaked in), I managed to post out more than 400 leaftlets. I was under a lot of pressure because I was running out of time but I had my task accomplished within the given time frame. Next, I was instructed to call each of these members that I had issued the leaflets to and ask them whether they had received them. Now, if their reply was "Yes", well good for them and if the reply was "No", I would not be issuing them another leaflet for I did not have the time for that. I could not rationalise the purpose of my calls to them. It was simply redundant work delegated to me by a higher authority. I had no other choice but to obey. And one day in the privacy of my cubicle when everyone had gone to an AGM meeting ,I broke down. It was amazing how I was in a better state of mind when I had sent out those leaflets though I had to beat the time, than I was when I had to simply make calls. What was the reason for that breakdown? Here's a story that illustrates that...... During WWII, the Germans had imprisoned many Jews and kept them in concentration camps. These prisoners were tortured, not given enough nutrition, made to toil and some were even used for experiments. Once, a selected group of prisoners were commanded to dig a huge pit and pile up the sand on the other side. The following day, they were made to return to the site and cover up the pit they had dug with the sand that they had piled up the day before. On the third day, they were made to dig a huge pit on the same spot and on the fourth cover up the pit again. They repeated the procedure for several days until many of the prisoners eventually succumbed and broke down in despair. Henceforth, the Germans had arrived at the conclusion that they had wished to derive from the experiment........ Humans cannot do meaningless work. We're just not made that way. Labels: Motivation Thachayini Coffee Talk at 12:04 PM
Sunday, December 16, 2007 The Meaning of PeaceThere once was a king who offered a prize to the artist who would paint the best picture of peace.Many artists tried. The king looked at all the pictures. But there were only two he really liked, and he had to choose between them. Overhead was a blue sky with fluffy white clouds. All who saw this picture thought that it was a perfect picture of peace. The other picture had mountains, too. But these were rugged and bare. Above was an angry sky, from which rain fell and in which lightning played. Down the side of the mountain tumbled a foaming waterfall. This did not look peaceful at all. But when the king looked closely, he saw behind the waterfall a tiny bush growing in a crack in the rock. In the bush a mother bird had built her nest.There, in the midst of the rush of angry water, sat the mother bird on her nest - in perfect peace. Which picture do you think won the prize? The king chose the second picture. Do you know why? "Because," explained the king."Peace does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble, or hard work. Peace means to be in the midst of all those things and still be calm in your heart. That is the real meaning of peace. Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without – Buddha Labels: Motivation Thachayini Coffee Talk at 9:46 PM
Friday, December 14, 2007 A Classic IronyLast Saturday, while making my rounds in the temple, I arrived at the white statue of Lord Shiva. Attached to the grand pillar, he was sitting in a meditative pose with his palms clasped on his lap and facing upwards (Just like in the picture).Then something caught my eye. There was a coin on his palm! "Who had tried to reduce the mighty provider to a beggar???" I wondered. I understood the good will of the individual for wanting to contribute to the temple. But that could be done at the allocated coin box, the office or the tray that is used to show the fire. It is immaterial to shower money on the hands or feet of the Greatest Giver! What an irony! I knew that the Merciful One would take no offence and I continued on my rounds. Hence, for all those who believe that you're doing a great deed showering nickels on the Lord's feet and hands, here is a story on what God represents and where we stand.... Vivekananda paid a visit to his favourite Kali Temple, one day. While standing outside the altar of the Great Mother, he could not help noticing the ruins the once beautiful temple had become by its invaders. "If only I had been born earlier," he thought. "I would have saved this temple from the ruins." Just then, from within him, he heard the great laughter of a woman that belonged to none other than Mother Kali. "I am the reason why you can lift your finger. Would I not be able to protect my own temple?" she asked. "Nothing happens beyond me and everything happens for a reason," she explained. Vivekananda had realised his folly and revered the Great Mother. "Remember the Lord for it is He who is giving you the power to make wealth." - A quote that I found at the back of a truck. Labels: Reflection Thachayini Coffee Talk at 11:02 AM
Wednesday, December 12, 2007 Brewing Coffee"Brewing Coffee". Why do I call my blog "Brewing Coffee"? My cousin suggested that I call it "Kopi With Thach". Catchy! :)But I have my reasons. And after I have narrated the story, you will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again. A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of figuring and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose. Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil,without saying a word. In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots and eggs out and placed them in separate bowls. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in another bowl. Turning to her daughter, she asked, "Tell me what you see." "Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied. Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard boiled egg. Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked, "What does it mean, mother?" Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity; boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water. "Which are you?" she asked her daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffeebean?" Hence, I hope that my blog inspires everyone to be fragrant and flavoured like the coffee beans. And that's why I have called my blog, "Brewing Coffee". :) Labels: Reflection Thachayini Coffee Talk at 10:24 AM
Monday, December 10, 2007 Winners Never Quit!Nothing is impossible to a willing heart. - John Heywood, sixteenth-century English poetA little girl - the 20th of 22 children, was born prematurely and her survival was doubtful. When she was 4 years old, she contracted double pneumonia and scarlet fever, which left her with a paralysed left leg. At age 9, she removed the metal leg brace she had been dependent on and began to walk without it. By 13 she had developed a rhythmic walk, which doctors said was a miracle. That same year she decided to become a runner.She entered a race and came in last. For the next few years every race she entered, she came in last. Everyone told her to quit, but she kept on running. One day she actually won a race, and then another. From then on she won every race she entered. Eventually this little girl - Wilma Rudolph, went on to win three Olympic gold medals. Labels: Inspiration Thachayini Coffee Talk at 1:25 PM
Sunday, December 9, 2007 Kids Ask The Darnest ThingsMy nephew was four when I read to him the story of a tiger cub that had trouble belonging to its streak because it was too kind to kill. His exasperated mother, the tigeress sent him out in the wild and warned him not to return till he had made a kill. The little tiger cub went on a hunt but ended up helping the animals rather than killing them. Eventually, he fell into a river and struggled to keep afloat. The animals that he had helped earlier arrive in the nick of time to save the tiger cub from drowning. After which, I closed the book concluding that the moral of the story is when you help others, you will receive help in your time of need. The little tyke had a bigger question for me. "Where was God when the cub was drowning?" Totally taken aback for I had not expected such a profound question from a four-year old, I explained to him that God cannot be everywhere all the time and that is why he sends people to help others in his place. Phew! As for the story......later ;) Thachayini Coffee Talk at 12:40 AM
Thursday, December 6, 2007 A Pet is a Lifetime CommitmentMy niece had innocently purchased a few baby turtles at a fair that she had found irresistably cute.She had later developed cold feet and abandoned them in her neighbour's potted plant fearing that her mother (my sister) would kill her. My sister went into a fit as predicted when she learnt about this, not because my niece bought those turtles but rather because she had failed to take responsibility for their lives. She returned to the pot but the turtles were no longer there. My niece's eyes glistened as she narrated this account. It was apparent that she felt guilty and she was sorry about what had happened. She had learnt that she needs to take responsibility for a life and not just abandon it to save her own arse. Hence, we just hope those turtles found a new home and they're probably swimming away happily in somebody's tank or pond. I had sought her permission to put up this account on my blog for it reminded me of a tale..... A man paid a visit to his Guru, a highly regarded Yogi, on his way to another town. The Guru received him with great hospitality and offered him a tumbler of tea. The man was about to sip into the tea when he held his lips back. A fly had flown into the tumbler and it was struggling to keep afloat on the drink. The man was in a dilemma. He could not drink the tea for it was unhygienic. But at the same time, it will be disrespectful not to, for he will upset his Guru who had offered him the beverage with such love. The Guru, a wise man had noticed the confusion on the man's face and inquired. Still not being able to decide, he finally explained his dilemma to the Guru. Astound by what he had heard, the Guru demanded for the tumbler. He witnessed the fly struggling in the tea, dipped his fingers in and gently picked it up. He laid it on a leaf for its drenched wings to dry and finally it flew away to freedom. After which, the Guru pointed out to the man that what he had done was wrong. He ruled out that in both reasons, he had thought selfishly. On one hand, his health was his priority and on the other, he considered it would reflect badly on him if he offended the Guru. Unfortunately, he had failed to consider that the life of the fly that was at stake and try do something about it. The man realised his mistake. Labels: Reflection Thachayini Coffee Talk at 12:54 PM
Wednesday, December 5, 2007 Love What You Do Or Do What You LoveWhile a sculptor was chiselling a statue, feeling tired and bored of his seemingly unglamourous life, he saw a procession pass by.Four guards were carrying a palaquin on their shoulders with a magistrate settled in it. Watching the expressionless guards, the sculptor assumed that they were having an easier life than he did. "How nice would it be if I could be a guard. They don't have to use great force to chip stones like I do and how difficult can it be to carry a palaquin and walk." The next instant, the sculptor saw himself as a guard carrying the palaquin on his shoulder. After travelling a safe distance in his new vocation, the hands of the ex-sculptor grew tired and he began to feel the pressure on his shoulder. "Being a guard is not easy after all," he wondered. Seated in the palaquin, with the greatest of creature comforts at his feet, he envied the ease of the Magistrate. "He gets to enjoy the best because he is powerful. How I wish I could be a magistrate?" he lamented. Just as he had wished, the ex-sculptor found himself comfortably settled in a palaquin, carried labouriously by four guards who waited on him. Life never felt better. While enjoying his new-found authority and power, the "magistrate" got off his palaquin and was exposed to the unbearable heat of the Sun. He had to take shelter in a nearby inn. Then, it dawned upon him that the Sun was mightier for even a powerful magistrate like him had to retreat from its heat. He desired to be the Sun and he became one. As the Sun, he shone with his greatest might, gleefully making the lands parched. However, his supremacy was shortlived when the clouds covered him and his rays were blocked. "Looks like even the mighty Sun has to succumb to the clouds," he moaned behind the clouds that bound him. "Then I shall become the cloud!" With that exclamation, he became a cloud. In his new form, he basked in glory as he blocked out the sun rays as often as he could. His glory ended briefly when the winds blew at him. He drifted away from the Sun helplessly and struggled to find his way back. Understanding that he was at the mercy of the winds, he transformed into the wind. He happily blew away everything in sight, feeling the potency of his new power. Almost everything; living and non-living was blown away, save one. Summoning his greatest might, he blew hard at a mountain that just would not budge. Eventually, he grew tired and admitted to himself that the great mountain was mightier than he was. With that, he became a mountain. He stood tall and mighty in the middle of the valley, feeling more powerful than he had ever been. He was stronger than a guard, mightier than a magistrate, the Sun could not melt him, the clouds could not hide him and the winds could not blow him away. He had finally become the mightiest of all creations and he could not be swayed. Then, in a distance, he heard some tapping, followed by some knocks. He felt a miniscule part of him vibrate. "What could it be?" he wondered as he gazed down perplexed. And there he saw on his great form, a sculptor chiselling a statue on him. As an old Tamil adage says, "God is in Service. And it is through our profession that we serve." Labels: Inspiration Thachayini Coffee Talk at 9:57 PM
Tuesday, December 4, 2007 Make A Difference"To know one life has breathed easier because you have lived is to have succeeded" - Emmerson This quote was passed to me by my friend when I was there with her during her difficult times. I had saved it for it means a lot to me and I have just the story to match it. :) There was a young man walking down a deserted beach just before dawn. In the distance, he saw a frail old man. As he approached the old man, he saw him picking up stranded starfish and throwing them back into the sea. The young man gazed in wonder as the old man again threw the small starfish into the water. He asked, "Old man, why do you spend so much energy doing what seems to be a waste of time." The old man explained that the stranded starfish would die if left in the morning sun. "But there must be thousands of beaches and millions of starfish!" exclaimed the young man. "How can you make any difference?" The old man looked at the small starfish in his hand and as he threw it to the safety of the sea, he said, "It makes a difference to this one!" Labels: Inspiration Thachayini Coffee Talk at 1:01 PM
Monday, December 3, 2007 The Courage to CareNot too long ago, during one of my defining days, I had an opportunity to work in a shipyard as a data-entry clerk for a brief period of time. Situated at the far end of the island, abandoned stray dogs were a common sight on the reclaimed land. On a particular morning, as I was walking purposefully towards my office, I came across a skinny brown mongrel pacing about the yard. As I got nearer to the dog, it was almost impossible to not notice a huge tumour on its rear that gave out a raw and pungent stench. Disturbed by what I saw, I came up with my own diagnosis that the dog might be suffering from some kind of canine cancer. It made me wonder; it is typical of us to seek ailment from a doctor if we're unwell. What about these animals? Who will they go to and how will they express their pain? That was the last I saw of the dog. Two days later, an unbearable stench of decaying matter wafted from the side of the yard where thin metal plates were decked (a favourite hide-out for the dogs). It was undeniably the decomposing of a larger animal other than a rat. I had sensed that the dog was dead. Maybe it was better this way I thought. It need not suffer anymore. The following day, I learnt from my colleague that the dog had died, not because of some tumour but rather the 'tumour' was actually an unborn pup that got stuck! The poor mongrel had been roaming about not being able to deliver completely and finally it had succumbed to the excruciating pain. I was gravely disturbed by what I had heard. I began to blame myself for the end of the dog. "Maybe I could have done something?" I wondered. I could have called the SPCA or brought it to a vet. Why didn't I? Was it because my condescending mind believed that it was just a dog? Or was it because I did not have the courage to step forward? As harmless as I had always believed myself to be, it made me wonder whether I am a good samaritan? Each time I pondered over this incident, I was reminded of the story of The Good Samaritan, a story that had been told and retold to me on several occasions by different people............ A man from Jerusalem who needed to travel to Jericho made his way on a steep and treacherous road, only to be attacked by robbers who took everything even his clothes. They beat him up and left him lying half dead by the road. As the man laid there unable to move, a high priest from the temple in Jerusalem passed by. He was a very important person travelling on an important business. He saw the injured man but he did not go over to help him. Instead he moved to the other side of the road and hurried past. The next to come by was a Levite, one of the clerks of the temple – not as important as the priest but still a very busy man. He, too, turned his head away and passed by on the other side of the road. Then a Samaritan came riding along on his donkey. But this Samaritan stopped his donkey when he saw the injured traveler. He got off and went to see if he could help. He attended to the injured man and put him in the care of an innkeeper till he regained himself. Why didn't the two clergy men help the injured man? They were highly regarded men of great positions. Were they evil? Isn't good and bad ingrained in all men at birth? Why would God only create one man with compassion? From my point of view, those men did not have the courage to care. It took a lot of trouble to help the injured man and that would put them in a tight spot, making them answerable to many. Neither was prepared to go through that. How often have we behaved like those men in our daily lives? How many of us have pretended to sleep or remained oblivious to someone who needed the seats more than us on board a bus? What attributes to the nonchalance? Lack of compassion or mere fear? Fear of the looks that we might get from the others if we were to get up and offer our seats? Fear of embarassment? Or the fear of standing out from the crowd; a challenge posed to our 'herd instincts'? From the demise of the dog, I had learnt a lesson. If I had wanted, I could have done something, regardless of the opposition. I had learnt that it takes courage to care. Q: Who had the most courage? 'James Bond', 'Rambo' or 'The Terminator'? ' A: Mother Theresa had the most courage. Labels: Reflection Thachayini Coffee Talk at 12:16 PM
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